TPM uses DANGEROUS therapy techniques once considered "traditional psychoanalytic ". These Freudian therapies have been largely abandoned by psychiatrists and increasingly shunned by competent Christian counselors. Dr. McHugh (former chair of psychiatry at Johns Hopkins) points out that programs using traditional psychoanalytic techniques (like TPM) are statistically shown to lead to poor outcomes such as increased rates of unemployment, estrangement from family, loss of child custody and suicide ideation.
More information about TPM by informed psychologists, expert therapists and Christian Scholars are available at:
Letter of Warning:
To everyone interested in Truth,
As a 47 year old concerned mother of 3 ,deeply wounded by therapy, I write this letter because I was once an accuser as a result of these victim mentality therapies, then i became a retractor and broke free of the mind altering techniques involved and became a TRUE VICTIM who lost everything.
This included my husband whom I lost to the therapist, and my only two daughters, who continue to believe the 'False Memories' of childhood sexual and ritual abuse arising from the unproven and unethical forms of therapy. My daughters have cut off all contact despite efforts on my part to reconnect. I know they have been advised by this therapist in conjunction with their father to cut off all communication.
This Repressed Memory/ Theophostic Prayer Ministry used the following techniques on my family and me: guided imagery, reference to 'Body memories', hypnotic trances, suggestibility, heavy emphasis on 'abreaction', constant reinforcement of the fact that all the bizarre memories were true because the therapist had heard it all before, reference to 'alters or 'parts' (up to 20 different parts) and labeling me an SRA (Satanic Ritual Abuse) victim before I even started the therapy based solely on the fact I had depression and Lupus SLE.
There was absolutely no attempt to substantiate or corroborate any of the 'imaginings'. Instead the therapist tried to drag up more and more bizarre visualizations to the point where I was totally out of touch with reality.In a place of severe mental breakdown and tried to commit suicide. Initially before breaking free from this dangerous therapy I was advised to cut off from all extended family (because they were supposedly the root cause of my pain) I was told to stop taking antidepressants and not to seek professional medical help.
I openly encourage all mental health workers, therapists and church counselors to become more aware of this dangerous form of therapy and of the enormous, sometimes irreversible damage it can cause to an individual and to the many family members it can ultimately destroy. ( this also includes all those innocent people that have been accused of gross crimes because of repressed memory therapy and have and still continue to serve time in jails for crimes that they did not commit.)
This dangerous therapy also takes away justice and diminishes the severity of true and actual sexual crimes which are perpetrated and have been proven to have occurred. I implore all of you involved in mental health fields and church healing ministries to keep up to date with current research and accounts that are now very clearly showing the damage created by such irresponsible forms of therapy.
To continue to use these therapies is malpractice to say the least and totally unethical and unprofessional. It CAN and HAS led to suicides, innocent people being imprisoned, and the total destruction of the family unit. I am one of those statistics and I can no longer sit idly by and know that there are still large numbers of you out there that are using these unorthodox and dangerous therapies.
I also challenge you to keep up to date with research in the field of memory and how pseudomemories (false memories ) CAN and ARE being created by these types of therapies. Elizabeth Loftus is a leading researcher in the field. In respect to Ed Smith and his Theophostic Prayer Ministries, I ask all those who have involved themselves in some way with this 'psychoheresy' to take an extremely critical look at his theology and his writings in 'BEYOND TOLERABLE RECOVERY'.
Jan Fletcher, a Christian journalist and researcher has written a very powerful e-book called 'Lying Spirits' which clearly and thoroughly discounts much of Ed Smith's teachings. It is a valuable resource for those who have suffered as a result of involving themselves in Repressed/ Theophostic therapy.
This is just a brief account of my true story. My name is Narelle Lewis and I reside in Brisbane Queensland, I have spent the last three years in total agony and emotional pain because I become involved with a freelance so-called therapist on the QLD Gold Coast who practices a mishmash of repressed memory, body memory and Theophostic Ministry on her unwitting patients. Before meeting this middle aged, female, divorced, freelance therapist who was and still is (to my knowledge) operating a business and preying on people's vulnerability; I had a loving family and adoring compassionate husband, two beautiful daughters and one son.
I had suffered from depression for many years and also have lupus SLE and high blood pressure. I met this woman in 2002, and was immediately labeled an SRA ( explained as Sexual Ritual Abuse) survivor. I then went through 18 months of intense and tortuous brainwashing therapy in which anything and everything was dragged up relating to sexual abuse by my father who died in 1989.
I had previously had no memories of my childhood much earlier than 6 to 8 years of age. In fact I was quite sure I had had a normal happy childhood, but because of my present ailments this woman labeled me as an SRA victim and continued to pursue the root cause of my present day ailments.
She followed all the same methods I have mentioned previously and used by many other such unethical counselors and eventually I became totally cut off from my extended family and indeed the real world. I did this only to please my husband who eventually was sucked into becoming involved with this woman and her dangerous therapy. He left me in September 2003 to support her and her dangerous therapy.
In September 2003, my whole world fell apart, I became suicidal and took pills, I couldn't stand any more of the pressure placed on me by both the therapist and my now very different self obsessed and blameful husband who was consumed with hatred for my family. He left me and went on to continue to support the therapist. My daughters now 23 and 21 became involved in the same Repressed/Theophostic Therapy.
They cut of all ties and to this day (two long and painful years) will have no contact despite my desperate attempts to reconnect. I was left alone to battle through what I had been left me , which had once been my life and reason for living. My son is still with me he is 16 but now has developed severe emotional problems including OCD and eating disorder. These conditions were not present before my husband left me.
The trauma had almost destroyed me and I was ready to end my life but I reached out to a registered Psychiatrist who has gradually bought me back to a place where I can at least function and work. I am a primary school teacher. I am still deeply and chronically depressed but this is controlled somewhat by antidepressant medication.
MY life is one of existence with out my daughters whom I love deeply and my husband who is under great deception and may even be delusional and in dire need of psychiatric help, which he refuses to have because this therapist will not allow it. She is very clever and manipulative and seems to have enormous power in being able to suck people in who are particularly vulnerable and are susceptible because of a deep need to feel the victim.
She cleverly tapped into this need as well as her need to have some sort of ego trip in being able to control the outcomes of other people's lives. She used information against me from my initial therapy sessions to manipulate and put herself in a position where both my husband and her were in a codependent relationship.
Neither of them could survive without communicating several times a day to each other and they got to the stage they were going away to motels and holiday houses to work on each other's healing. My husband and this counselor would not make any decisions without consulting each other. It was impossible to break in because they both remained unaccountable to anyone and kept telling me they only had to be accountable to God .
It was almost sect and cult-like. My husband is a totally changed individual who was once a compassionate, unselfish and caring man of integrity. After getting involved with this therapist in 2002 his whole personality deteriorated to the point of withdrawal from his family and the whole situation. My husband and I no longer communicate because the hurt and the hatred that is exchanged is just to much to bear.
This is only a small extract of the damage created by BAD and UNETHICAL therapy. I wish to seek help and I wish to get involved with bringing these crazy therapists who destroy whole families to some sort of justice and accountability. I want to help in lobbying politicians and churches and the wider community into becoming aware of the dangers of this kind of therapy. There desperately needs to be some protections put in place for the public at large.
Can you please make some sort of response in reading this letter, it is a cry from a deeply wounded mother of three who has lost everything and now has no family connections. This is all because I became involved with a therapist who practices highly suspect and dangerous methods of therapy, including repressed memory which has led to false accusations that cannot be corroborated.
She uses other practices such as 'body memory', massage along with guided visualization and aspects of the dangerous Theophostic Prayer Ministry of Ed Smith in the U.S.A. I really am very alone in all this and it has taken an enormous toll on both Andrew my son and I, healthwise.
I feel I have nothing, it has all been taken from me and I am still reeling from the shock of the last three years (lost Years) still. I would be grateful for your assistance and support and for your attention to the content of this letter. The numbers of hurting people out there are enormous.
Therapists, psychotherapists, counselors, church workers and psychologists all need to be held accountable for the damage they may have created as in my case. I have no money to fight this therapist in court but have very detailed accounts of the times I spent in therapy with her and have records of my husband's payments to her over a two year period. The total is quite enormous. And for What?
I was left a total mess with suicidal ideation and I lost everything that mattered to me, MY FAMILY!
Thank you for your time
Narelle Lewis
Originally found at:
http://www.peterellis.org.nz/Mak/2006/02/2006-0205_Lewis_OpenLetter.htm
Found 7/12/2016 at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theophostic_counseling
This letter is now archived at:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/159oQ82xYpaEpPoMN4_TsLmfVg2222SsD
More information about TPM by informed psychologists, expert therapists and Christian Scholars are available at:
Secular and Theological Experts Speak Out on TPM
Experts Warn Public of Harm from Memory Based Therapies
Experts Warn Public of Harm from Memory Based Therapies
NOTE: Like other malevolent practices and products this program changes names and titles while also hiding behind religious protections. The same material and approaches are also called "Transformational Prayer Ministry", "Theophostic Prayer Ministry" and "TPM".
The letter below is by an ex-client of TPM. A psychologist using TPM was found guilty of malpractice. In 2006 a tribunal found that Irene Moreau (the prayer partner/life coach/counselor) 'inappropriately used TPM [Theophostic Prayer Ministry] as a counseling technique".
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To everyone interested in Truth,
As a 47 year old concerned mother of 3 ,deeply wounded by therapy, I write this letter because I was once an accuser as a result of these victim mentality therapies, then i became a retractor and broke free of the mind altering techniques involved and became a TRUE VICTIM who lost everything.
This included my husband whom I lost to the therapist, and my only two daughters, who continue to believe the 'False Memories' of childhood sexual and ritual abuse arising from the unproven and unethical forms of therapy. My daughters have cut off all contact despite efforts on my part to reconnect. I know they have been advised by this therapist in conjunction with their father to cut off all communication.
This Repressed Memory/ Theophostic Prayer Ministry used the following techniques on my family and me: guided imagery, reference to 'Body memories', hypnotic trances, suggestibility, heavy emphasis on 'abreaction', constant reinforcement of the fact that all the bizarre memories were true because the therapist had heard it all before, reference to 'alters or 'parts' (up to 20 different parts) and labeling me an SRA (Satanic Ritual Abuse) victim before I even started the therapy based solely on the fact I had depression and Lupus SLE.
There was absolutely no attempt to substantiate or corroborate any of the 'imaginings'. Instead the therapist tried to drag up more and more bizarre visualizations to the point where I was totally out of touch with reality.In a place of severe mental breakdown and tried to commit suicide. Initially before breaking free from this dangerous therapy I was advised to cut off from all extended family (because they were supposedly the root cause of my pain) I was told to stop taking antidepressants and not to seek professional medical help.
I openly encourage all mental health workers, therapists and church counselors to become more aware of this dangerous form of therapy and of the enormous, sometimes irreversible damage it can cause to an individual and to the many family members it can ultimately destroy. ( this also includes all those innocent people that have been accused of gross crimes because of repressed memory therapy and have and still continue to serve time in jails for crimes that they did not commit.)
This dangerous therapy also takes away justice and diminishes the severity of true and actual sexual crimes which are perpetrated and have been proven to have occurred. I implore all of you involved in mental health fields and church healing ministries to keep up to date with current research and accounts that are now very clearly showing the damage created by such irresponsible forms of therapy.
To continue to use these therapies is malpractice to say the least and totally unethical and unprofessional. It CAN and HAS led to suicides, innocent people being imprisoned, and the total destruction of the family unit. I am one of those statistics and I can no longer sit idly by and know that there are still large numbers of you out there that are using these unorthodox and dangerous therapies.
I also challenge you to keep up to date with research in the field of memory and how pseudomemories (false memories ) CAN and ARE being created by these types of therapies. Elizabeth Loftus is a leading researcher in the field. In respect to Ed Smith and his Theophostic Prayer Ministries, I ask all those who have involved themselves in some way with this 'psychoheresy' to take an extremely critical look at his theology and his writings in 'BEYOND TOLERABLE RECOVERY'.
Jan Fletcher, a Christian journalist and researcher has written a very powerful e-book called 'Lying Spirits' which clearly and thoroughly discounts much of Ed Smith's teachings. It is a valuable resource for those who have suffered as a result of involving themselves in Repressed/ Theophostic therapy.
This is just a brief account of my true story. My name is Narelle Lewis and I reside in Brisbane Queensland, I have spent the last three years in total agony and emotional pain because I become involved with a freelance so-called therapist on the QLD Gold Coast who practices a mishmash of repressed memory, body memory and Theophostic Ministry on her unwitting patients. Before meeting this middle aged, female, divorced, freelance therapist who was and still is (to my knowledge) operating a business and preying on people's vulnerability; I had a loving family and adoring compassionate husband, two beautiful daughters and one son.
I had suffered from depression for many years and also have lupus SLE and high blood pressure. I met this woman in 2002, and was immediately labeled an SRA ( explained as Sexual Ritual Abuse) survivor. I then went through 18 months of intense and tortuous brainwashing therapy in which anything and everything was dragged up relating to sexual abuse by my father who died in 1989.
I had previously had no memories of my childhood much earlier than 6 to 8 years of age. In fact I was quite sure I had had a normal happy childhood, but because of my present ailments this woman labeled me as an SRA victim and continued to pursue the root cause of my present day ailments.
She followed all the same methods I have mentioned previously and used by many other such unethical counselors and eventually I became totally cut off from my extended family and indeed the real world. I did this only to please my husband who eventually was sucked into becoming involved with this woman and her dangerous therapy. He left me in September 2003 to support her and her dangerous therapy.
In September 2003, my whole world fell apart, I became suicidal and took pills, I couldn't stand any more of the pressure placed on me by both the therapist and my now very different self obsessed and blameful husband who was consumed with hatred for my family. He left me and went on to continue to support the therapist. My daughters now 23 and 21 became involved in the same Repressed/Theophostic Therapy.
They cut of all ties and to this day (two long and painful years) will have no contact despite my desperate attempts to reconnect. I was left alone to battle through what I had been left me , which had once been my life and reason for living. My son is still with me he is 16 but now has developed severe emotional problems including OCD and eating disorder. These conditions were not present before my husband left me.
The trauma had almost destroyed me and I was ready to end my life but I reached out to a registered Psychiatrist who has gradually bought me back to a place where I can at least function and work. I am a primary school teacher. I am still deeply and chronically depressed but this is controlled somewhat by antidepressant medication.
MY life is one of existence with out my daughters whom I love deeply and my husband who is under great deception and may even be delusional and in dire need of psychiatric help, which he refuses to have because this therapist will not allow it. She is very clever and manipulative and seems to have enormous power in being able to suck people in who are particularly vulnerable and are susceptible because of a deep need to feel the victim.
She cleverly tapped into this need as well as her need to have some sort of ego trip in being able to control the outcomes of other people's lives. She used information against me from my initial therapy sessions to manipulate and put herself in a position where both my husband and her were in a codependent relationship.
Neither of them could survive without communicating several times a day to each other and they got to the stage they were going away to motels and holiday houses to work on each other's healing. My husband and this counselor would not make any decisions without consulting each other. It was impossible to break in because they both remained unaccountable to anyone and kept telling me they only had to be accountable to God .
It was almost sect and cult-like. My husband is a totally changed individual who was once a compassionate, unselfish and caring man of integrity. After getting involved with this therapist in 2002 his whole personality deteriorated to the point of withdrawal from his family and the whole situation. My husband and I no longer communicate because the hurt and the hatred that is exchanged is just to much to bear.
This is only a small extract of the damage created by BAD and UNETHICAL therapy. I wish to seek help and I wish to get involved with bringing these crazy therapists who destroy whole families to some sort of justice and accountability. I want to help in lobbying politicians and churches and the wider community into becoming aware of the dangers of this kind of therapy. There desperately needs to be some protections put in place for the public at large.
Can you please make some sort of response in reading this letter, it is a cry from a deeply wounded mother of three who has lost everything and now has no family connections. This is all because I became involved with a therapist who practices highly suspect and dangerous methods of therapy, including repressed memory which has led to false accusations that cannot be corroborated.
She uses other practices such as 'body memory', massage along with guided visualization and aspects of the dangerous Theophostic Prayer Ministry of Ed Smith in the U.S.A. I really am very alone in all this and it has taken an enormous toll on both Andrew my son and I, healthwise.
I feel I have nothing, it has all been taken from me and I am still reeling from the shock of the last three years (lost Years) still. I would be grateful for your assistance and support and for your attention to the content of this letter. The numbers of hurting people out there are enormous.
Therapists, psychotherapists, counselors, church workers and psychologists all need to be held accountable for the damage they may have created as in my case. I have no money to fight this therapist in court but have very detailed accounts of the times I spent in therapy with her and have records of my husband's payments to her over a two year period. The total is quite enormous. And for What?
I was left a total mess with suicidal ideation and I lost everything that mattered to me, MY FAMILY!
Thank you for your time
Narelle Lewis
Originally found at:
http://www.peterellis.org.nz/Mak/2006/02/2006-0205_Lewis_OpenLetter.htm
Found 7/12/2016 at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theophostic_counseling
This letter is now archived at:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/159oQ82xYpaEpPoMN4_TsLmfVg2222SsD
Editor’s Comment:
The retractor provides an remarkable insight into how a prayer ministry that assumes "repressed memory" to be a fact, combined with a person having significant authority (a licensed counselor who claimed to be a Christian) predictably nurtured false memories. This is a clear example and replication of how false memories are formed. Experts have long long debunked repressed memories that is openly accepted by the founder of the TPM ministry (Ed Smith).
Shame is often the outcome once the accusations are leveled. The horrid implications for the client, family and accused can have a huge impact on reputations, careers and livelihoods. Clients and the falsely accused are both victims of this "prayer ministry". This ministry needlessly causes a deleterious impact on family reputation. The shame associated with the accusations (even after they are retracted) is a part of the reason such programs continue to breed more false memories and more tragedy as new clients are ignorant (due to the silence) of the horrid outcomes such programs frequently generate.
Profit is also another reason these tragic therapies continue to be propagated.
The retractor provides an remarkable insight into how a prayer ministry that assumes "repressed memory" to be a fact, combined with a person having significant authority (a licensed counselor who claimed to be a Christian) predictably nurtured false memories. This is a clear example and replication of how false memories are formed. Experts have long long debunked repressed memories that is openly accepted by the founder of the TPM ministry (Ed Smith).
Shame is often the outcome once the accusations are leveled. The horrid implications for the client, family and accused can have a huge impact on reputations, careers and livelihoods. Clients and the falsely accused are both victims of this "prayer ministry". This ministry needlessly causes a deleterious impact on family reputation. The shame associated with the accusations (even after they are retracted) is a part of the reason such programs continue to breed more false memories and more tragedy as new clients are ignorant (due to the silence) of the horrid outcomes such programs frequently generate.
Profit is also another reason these tragic therapies continue to be propagated.
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Grace and I while visiting family in New England
The theophostic prayer ministry is a medium ministry and it is important to not invite God into our lives in this way. We can catastrosize, and lose our way so much with God in this ministry that we are never the same, and that our lives are cut off from him. It is not good to feel responsible for every emotion and try to change it. It is also not good to control every emotion and always try to change yourself. I have no intention of continuing this ministry in my life, and will never use it again because I tried to kill myself over it.
ReplyDeleteWe are very happy that you were able to cease the downward spiral memory based therapies, like TPM, are known to initiate. Often these techniques are used on people who may actually have other health issues. You may want to look into them. Glad you were able to shake off this errant treatment! https://truthaboutpseudomemories.blogspot.com/2019/06/health-and-pseudomemories.html
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for your horrible experience and your great sadness and loss. It sounds like you had a very manipulative therapist. Ed Smith's training does not give suggestions on what could of happened in our childhood to cause emotional pain. It's not hypnosis. It makes sense...emotional pain (example-feelings of rejection), where did this rejection come from...memory...then asking Jesus to heal this wound/lie. The truth is we have never lived an unloved moment in our lives. Your therapist did so many other things that went way off than what Ed Smith teaches. She did not follow what he is teaching so it is unfair to connect him with this. Ed Smith teaches to feel the emotion, make connections and then have Jesus heal you, to bring it all before Him.
ReplyDeleteThe author of this ministry, and the book "HEALING LIFES HURTS THROUGH THEOPHOSTIC PRAYER" most definitely is mistaken. One example of a mistake is the idea that "memories" are stored and preserved in "containers" as depicted throughout his book (explicitly on pages 25-29, 49, 89 & 137) The idea of "containers that preserve events and emotions" was completely debunked decades ago ("The Myth of Repressed Memory" by famed memory expert Dr. Elizabeth Loftus is a good read). On page 142 Ed Smith throws off all pretenses and states "What convinces me more than anything else of the reality of repressed memory is the people I see whose lives have been transformed..." His clinging to that fanciful notion despite the overwhelming evidence that it DOES NOT EXIST is a shocking display of professional negligence. If he were an insured therapist which he is NOT- he hides behind religious freedom as protection from lawsuit he could be sued. Study after study and case after legal case confirm that such "memories" are are often fabricated, especially after long periods of time, while medicated or exhausted, confused in a suggestive state or in some combination of events. He totally ignores the physiological aspects that in the last 10-15 years has been arriving on the seen when metabolic health alters the presence of serotonin. This is now KNOWN to cause depression. Altering the metabolic health can also alter the emotional state of the person. Those inclined to faith believe God can bring about miraculous transformations and I am NOT positing against that. I am pointing out the lies, misleading ideas and ommisions that this "prayer ministry" continues to propogate despite the warnings of so many.
ReplyDeleteEven in the presence of overwhelming evidence some cling to the idea that the "technique" is effective and only damaging IF the practitioner has "evil intentions". That defense of the errant approach to counseling ignorant of the unintended effects of this tragic method based on myths. So the statement "All need to understand that this type of out come can happen in ANY type of counseling when done with wrong intentions..." is not only errant but misleading. Such a statement merely protects those using counseling techniques that rely on blaming others. This approach means unintentionally suggesting and supporting lies is OK as long as the counselor "intends well". This is not only tragic for the falsely accused but also devastating for the client who may one day come to realize they destroyed an innocent person and often a family member. Even if well intended these are horrid outcomes.
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