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Our daughter and her
then common law husband Kevin both had been married previously but
told us they wanted to have a wedding in the church and invited us to
come. We traveled 2,463 miles by car towing a trailer to be there in
time for the wedding and stay in a nearby campground. The brief visit involved emotive displays of horrid behavior and accusations we had never dreamed of, heard about or witnessed before that trip. Our daughter repeatedly referred to “repressed
memories” and described horrid events
that never happened. A "friend" called “Juanita”
was present and encouraged animated false “recollections” by our daughter. "Juanita Aunsbach was someone we had never met before, had no personal knowledge of anyone in our family and no one in our nuclear family had ever heard or talked to her prior. We were shocked.
When another daughter began to show similar signs of mental illness (psychosis and delusions) we arranged for blood analysis. It was revealed that five of seven in our nuclear family have a metabolism known to have pathways leading to episodes of "psychosis". This pathway to psychosis can be caused by the medications posted online publicly by our daughter 2015. We are now convinced that poor and outdated talk therapy called "recovered memory therapy" combined with metabolic issues (relating to her pregnancy) and a reaction to medication underlie her struggles with these psuedomemories and untreated mental illness.
Thousands of miles away from where she grew up her social circles were ignorant of the facts. No one has ever called and talked with her brother, sisters, parents, grandparents or people who lived in our household during her youth.
We now realize that such delusions can persist indefinitely. Pseudo memories are resistant to change unless
those still in contact gently point out facts and ask questions that
make the accuser aware of discrepancies. We understand that the outlook for her recovery from this episode is very poor. Maltreatment (harmful talk therapies based on memory) can make untreated mental illness profitable for therapists as it extends unhelpful treatment indefinitely. We hope that someday her circle of acquaintances who do not
know us will at least encourage her to get physically checked and
competently cared for. We
have and will always love, respect and cherish our daughter.
In spite of the bizarre and false memories we
will never give up on reconciliation and continue to pray for her.
We are still allowed to
hope!
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prior to treatment with fraudulent therapy in 2015.
It is a time when she was both happy and healthy.
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